Hi Cesar!
My little Frankie is three years old. I have had him since he was born. I have never had a problem with his behavior until the past few months. It seems every time that I leave the house to go to work or go out on the weekends to run errands he gets upset.
He does not destroy anything in the house, but when I go over to him to say to goodbye and pet him right before I leave the house he growls at me. The first time it happened I was shocked and let it go. But now it occurs all the time, and I am not sure how I am supposed to handle this. Can you tell me why all of sudden he would have changed his behavior? Is it a reaction to something I am doing or maybe not doing?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
C. DiPalo
Long Island, NY
Hello C,
When your dog growls at you as you approach, he’s already showing you “I’m tense, I’m nervous, I’m fearful, I’m unsure,” and if you continue to move forward, this reaction will only intensify. The best thing we can do for a dog in this state of mind is to give them space – to ignore that behavior; let him deal with it and eventually, because you’re not nurturing it, it will go away. Remember, when we say “goodbye” to our dogs before we leave, it’s often to fulfill our own, very human feelings of guilt and anticipation. If you can’t help yourself and you must say goodbye, try to say goodbye earlier, before he is in that troubled state of mind. This way, you’re fulfilling your own need to love your dog without encouraging the unwanted behavior that you’re seeing when you say goodbye right before you leave for the day.
Stay calm and assertive,
Cesar Millan
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Separation Anxiety
Hi Cesar,
I have a great pyrenees who has been with us for 4 years now. He was a Rescue Dog. Other than the Separtion Anxiety he is a perfect pet. We just love him. I have spent money on trainers and several different ways of training. I have no ideas on how to fix this issue. He will begin howling even if we go outside in the laneway. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Oh I heard you are coming to Canada. I would be interested in more information.
Thank you so much
S Wing
Separation anxiety and barking
Hi Cesar,
We recently rescued a 3 year old male basset hound. He is a really great dog and the environment that he left was a positive one as well. Our problem is that everytime we leave the house he barks and howls up a storm. We have tried going out for a few minutes and then going back in so that he can see that he is not being abondoned. We do this several times so as to try and get the message across. This is not working. As well, when we do re-enter he jumps and barks. These are the only times when he is so vocal. We would really appreciate your advice.
Cheers,
L
HELLLPPPP!!!
Hi Cesar,
I am having the same problem with my maltesse mix. She was abused in her kennel and I saved her when she was three months. For the past few months she has been really nervous everytime I leave she wont eat, play, or sleep. She will bark til I come home and bark when I get home til she is satisfied with me consoling her. I have tried to give her my sock for my scent that didnt work, Then I gave her treats around the house so she would stay occupied that didnt work. She is now different with other dogs she plays with and she get scared over everything including dogs. I really need help by any means You are my last chance PLEASE HELP Me. :(
separation anxiety and barking
hi, i to have a dog rotty/Shepperd called numerouno he is 9 now. he is so attached to me i cant do anything without him.ive had other dogs and trained them really well,as well as other peoples dogs,i have allways been the pack leader.
but i have to say with this boy because of how he came to me (sad story)i went soft....i can hear cesar saying nooooo ,i treated him as my equal,i hate telling him off ,i think it hurts me more then him.
every one remarks on how well trained and switched on he is (hes human)
NOT- i have to keep reminding myself constantly he is the dog and he looks to me for leadership....
re barking and jumping -i noticed that going out for a few minutes and comming back just lets the dog know if i throw a tanty my owner will come back...and yes he used to scream and jump in excitement each time i walked through the door.
this is my solution-when im getting ready to go i put him out the back,that way he cant see the actions for me leaving,otherwise he is a mess before i get out the door.i either spread bickies around the yard or put the biscutes in a dry plastic coke bottle &leave the lid off,so he can push it around and get the bickies out.
also i "do not" say good bye ,i just do it.
i also get in my car and drive 4 houses down ,and sit ,and listen .
if he barks i quickly sneak back ,wait for the barking to start then open the gate really quick and say "no bark" naughty boy in a gruff voice(he really takes this to heart)i then leave again,and wait a bit longer up the rd incase i have to repeat the process...hes been really good lately.
when i walk in after being out hes barking jumping ect ,i ignor him ,as hard as it is ,and when he sits calmly then i make a fuss of him and give him a treat and tell him good boy.
when ever he barks,jumps or is naughty in any way ,i fold my arms and dont look at him ,it took a while but i find this to work for my boy ,mabey it can help others too...
cesar i also would like any other ideas you can give me or pull me up if im going wrong some were...
cheers
flick
Vizsla Puppy with Separation Anxiety
Hello, I would appreciate any advice and tips to ease separation anxiety. We have a 9 month old wonderful Vizsla puppy named Lucie. She is sweet and wonderful. We only have to leave her alone 2 days a week - otherwise she is with me or my husband at home - and one day a week at puppy day care. The days she is home alone she is outside in the back yard - free to raom, has the deck, her blanket and crate, toys, water, etc... she never destroys anything outside or tries to escape or claw at the gate, but we just found out from the neighbor that ALL day while we are gone she cries and whines and bark - it sounds like she is being strangled, and is very loud and bothersome to them! We feel horrible, she appeared fine when we left, and usually quiet when we come home, so we assumed she was just fine. Inside she has chewed a of NEW couch coushions, so we were hoping she would be happier outside. She never "goes" inside, she is very good about that.We also take her to the dog park and play time and walks around the block, etc.
She does follow us around from room to room when we are home, and does sleep with us in the bed. She loves to play with other dogs and people - when she goes to puppy day care she happily runs off with the employees and other dogs - she doesn't need to stay with us then, and at the dog parks she is happy to go off and play. I feel like she is upset at being ALONE. Today we left her in her crate, but I don't want to do that for an entire work day... we may go back to having her inside and see if that is better. Any suggestions to make her feel better about staying alone? We are considering getting a 2nd Vizsla so that they could keep each other company, but my concern would be this might be worse? or we could have 2 dogs barking all day?
separation anxiety
Did you ever get an answer to this problem. We have a very similar problem with our 10 month old cockapoo. She's great until we leave her alone, and then she howls and whines alot. I'm new to this forum and don't quite know the ropes yet. Any help is appreciated.
Separation Anxiety
Ok this is my issue. My dog is great in every aspect except he has separation anxiety and will bark when I'm not around. I currently crate my dog (a cockapoo, 3 years old) - he doesn't really like the crate but typically when I lock him in (literally I put a lock on the cage), he will sit down normally and accept his place.
But now he is barking an my neighbours in the apartment I live in are getting upset with this.
I have tried the neutral state of mind that one should take before I leave the apartment and I also wait before I take him out of the cage when I return home.
I have tried the citronella collar and originally my dog stopped barking but then he figured it out after a few days and he was back to his old bad habits of barking.
I have tried but I need help! Please give me advice/help! I love my dog.
Puppy Help
I actually have the same problem. my puppy lives in a crate and I would practice sitting in the crate with him. Then I would give him treats to help him acknowledge that being in here is a good thing. Then I would come out of the crate and feed him more treats from the outside. Then I would leave the door open and let him come out but hold a treat in the crate and let him come in and eat it. I would practice him with daily. I would also practice letting my puppy stay in the crate but sitting outside the crate for an hour or so and read a dog a just try to ignore him. This lets him know that I am there to watch over him but at the same time I am ignoring my pup so he learns to be a little more independent.
Hi Cesar, My boxer dog Tyson
Hi Cesar, My boxer dog Tyson is nearly 1 year old, he gets brought out for a run everyday but he still as hyper as ever when he comes home and I know boxer dogs are naturally hpyer dogs and need alot of attention but even when kids come into the house i do be afraid he will jump up and knock them down. When I need to go and collect my mother from work I put him in the back yard until I come home and it does only be for about 1 hour and when I come back he does be eating the wooden fence and if I leave him in the house he does grab everything he can.
Have you any advise you could give me
I NEED HELP WITH MY NEW PUPPY
I have a 8 week year old puppy that is a mix of a yorkshire terrier and a daschund and he wont stop whinning when we leave him alone. We live in an appartment and we have his kennel and water and food and his puppy pad in the kitchen behind a doggy gate. Me and my boyfriend are college students and he has work to go to during the spring holiday and I have to study for my spring course studies in college but when we leave him in the kitchen for not even a minute.. he wont stop whinning and crying. Its been 3 days since we got him and at first me and my boyfriend tried to keep him quiet but saying "SH!" or "NO" but the more we do it.. the more he gets excited and whines more.
Now a days, my boyfriend has more shifts for work so I take care of Nunu the whole day.. trying to train him little by little and taking him out for a walk once a day for 10 minutes, only because he gets tired and cold easily. However, now that its only me and nunu at home these days.. I am starting to shout and use the claw technique in a harder way. I dont want to hurt Nunu and make him scared and treat him in that way but my frusteration is rising and I am starting to give up on making him quiet but letting him out of the kitchen.
someone please help?
it is really difficult.. and I am still new to dogs and I feel like anything we do Nunu finds his way to get out of the kitchen and stick with us..
please email me if anyone has advices and suggestions :( i am quite desperate
mozilovesyou@hotmail.com
Seperation anxiety
I rescued a pit that is the best dog she is wonderful with children and other dogs the only problem is you cant leave her alone she ate through the privacy fence destroyed two kennels and tore her own nail and part of her toe in the process and now has scars from doing this so people look at her and think she is a fighter I watch Cesar religiously and still have no idea what to do about this problem we walk and walk and still she cant be left alone. HELP
anxiety?
I have a four year old husky cross who is normally an outiside dog. I brought her into the house a while ago (I never wanted her to be an outside dog) and she did great with house training, but she always had to be around me. Other people live in my house too, but she would constantly follow me. This wasnt the problem though. Im still in school so I cant be home all the time. I bought her a wire kennel to stay in on the days that noone is home, and she is good with it. Goes in no problem. She did great the first few times she had to spend the day in it too, but it didnt last long. Only about 3 days. Then on about the fourth day that she was alone, she completely distroyed her kennel. It was made from pretty thick metal so I have no idea how she did it, but after getting out of her kennel she continued to tear my room appart. She even pulled the frame off the door. This happened a few months ago and shes been back outside since, but Im gunna be moving soon and if I cant find a way to help her get over this I'll have to get rid of her. I dont no what to do though, any suggestions?
thank you,
Samantha
separation anxiety???
hi cesar!
i need your help please-my husband and i have a 2 1/2 yr old mixed pup (bensaji, chihuahua, pointer) and we moved just about 2 months ago. the past 2 weeks have been horrible-when i put rj to bed (he sleeps in the kitchen with the gate up-it's a large space with bed, food, water, toys, blanket)after about a half hour he cries and cries and starts scratching at the floor to get out like he is scared. for the 1st week i have ignored it completely but it just keeps getting worse! the crying is lasting longer and i don't know what to do! i make sure that he is cared for before going in the kitchen for the night (he has relieved himself, ate, played, is cozy...) and last night the scratching was just too much that i had to pull the crate out (which i only ever used his first week with us for potty training) and stick him in it-he still cried and scratched for a while, but at least he wasn't damaging anything and i put him in without any cuddling or baby talk which is soooooo hard for me not to do because i love my dog lol-but i stayed strong!
any idea what is going on or what i can do to help this situation???
oh and one more thing-he does not sleep in bed with us although he does like it-but only 2x can i think of that he has-i just don't want to deal with the battle in the bed.
thanks!!!!!
sara
Car Barking - Separation Anxiety
I have a dog who barks at anyone and everyone who she can see while I'm in the store. I have 2 dogs that come with me sometimes and stay in the car a female pitbull and an American Eskimo male. The male just sits quietly but my girl will bark as soon as I leave the car and she spots someone.
I would like to fix this issue she has and I read online that if you walk away from the car a couple of feet and you can still hear the dog barking you are to ignore her but when she does finally settle down to come back to the car and give them a treat. Basically slowly so many feet at a time until she gets used to being alone until you return. I will try this technique but does anyone know of any other techniques that work. I guess its almost the same as regular house separation anxiety.
6 year old female boxer
I have a six year old boxer. I have owned her since 2004. For the first 3 1/2 years she came everywhere with me. Where ever I slept, she slept. Car rides daily back and forth to a friends house, who also owned two other dogs. When I started dating someone in 2007, I couldn't take her to his place. He lives in an appartment and doesn't want my dog there. My dog lives at mothers house where I stayed for most of her life until I started sleeping at my boyfriends house nightly. My boxer was diagnosed with a blood disorder last summer and was put on prednisone which made her extremely hungry and thirsty. She has been peeing, getting into the trash and drinking out of the toilet ever since then. Now that she is at a minimum amount on the drug, it seems like she is still acting that way. When we leave at night time and for too long, it seems like she gets mad and upset causing her to make a mess in the house. Last week my mom left her at night time and when she returned, she had found that my dog peed in the middle of her bed. Which is the place my dog sleeps now since I am not around too often. Im just wondering if she is scared my mom will leave her, like I did. Or if she is acting out because im not around like I use to be?
My Boxer Gracie
Recently I moved in with my boyfriend of 5 yrs and brought my 2 boxers (6 & 7 yrs old) with me. Gracie has never had issues peeing in the house unless left for several hours. My boyfriend & I both work nights. We feed them early, put up the water, & don't make a big deal about leaving them when we leave for the night. Gracie has peed almost every night! Any suggestions you have would be greatly appreciated
Shelter Dog - Separation Anxiety
Wyatt is a mix that we adopted from a local shelter about a month ago. He is one of the sweetest dogs that I have been around. He is wonderful with children minus the fact that he gets very jealous when I'm on the floor with them playing instead of him. But minus that he is great. The only thing I am worried about is his anxiety. When he knows me and my husband are getting ready to leave he starts trembling. Once inside his crate he start panting heavily, salivates excessively, whines, barks, and sometimes urinates and defecates in his cage. He's tore up his dog bed so now all we keep in his cage is a blanket that we brought him home in. As soon as me or my husband get in he jumps all over us which is hard for me because he ways about fifty pounds and I weigh double that. Read online about herbs that help calm the dogs nerves but I really hate to use something like that if I don't have to. Please let me know of any suggestions your or anyone might have.
Thanks
I have a similar problem
Did you ever get a response from Cesar about your question? I just registered with this site. I'm reading people's questions and I don't see any replies. Has your problem been resolved? My dog was the same way, has destroyed 3 crates, so I don't use them anymore. But, she's DESTROYING my house when left alone. Eats the siding and everything. I'm just on here looking for some answers.
Thanks,
Denise
Cesar, PLZ HELP Shelter Dog-Exact Same Problem-Extreme Anxiety
My Shitzu is 15 pounds and was traumatized when left at the shelter by his 80 year old owner. He salivates, tears everything to shreds that he can get to when he moves his pen until he can demolish something. If not confined, he will tear down blinds if he can jump high enough to get them, One day he got out of his pen and he found an open window, tore the screen to shreds, jumped out the window and tore two more trying to get back in. He has terror in his eyes, salivates heavily and goes crazy barking and scratching out of control.
Does anyone have an answer to this? There is nothing he can have or he demolishes it. He does have a kong and a few toys. Nothing soft with him or he ruins it and he is on cement which can be cold and hard on his bones.
Cesar, what do you sugggest to help him? I would help him anyway I can. Recently he became a therapy dog and I can take him many places, however, I do have to work and he has to be alone for at least 4 hours. I have resisted medicine, but maybe it would help his extreme anxiety. He is an outstanding pet, but this really is a problem for him and all those around him. Input would greatly be appreciated.
Separation anxiety
I have two shelter dogs who were horrible when I went to work the first few years I had them, my Border Collie managed to bend the bars on the crate enough the top popped and she could be free. She tore whatever bedding I put in the crate, uf she was free she tore books, pillows.. I began a routine with them every time I left for work, I ignore them for about 10 minutes before I leave. I bought a kong for each of them, I fill it with a little bit of peant butter and sometimes a half of treat as well. When I get ready to go, I make them sit and then beg for the treat. I'd simply say "be good" and leave the house while they are distracted with the kongs. I started this on weekends and would leave for 10 minutes gradually increasing time away. I also ignore them for 10 minutes when I come home. They are not always 100 percent perfect when I am gone, but they are not destructive anymore (just a little barky sometimes) and they are not anxious when they see the signs that I am leaving, keys, coats, etc.... It took about 6 months, but leaving is so much easier now.
potty training
I have a 2 1/2 yr old Jack Russell that I got from a shelter...Shes a great dog but when we leave her, whether its for an hour or 5 hrs, she poops on the puppy
pad and pees on the floor. I make sure to take her out before I leave her but it doesn't seem to matter....
Anxiety
hi my name is teagan and i have a 9 month old dog named Taz he is a pure breed red healer he has had alot of problems after his best friend died we soon after we got a new dog. Taz has been atacking him and has been biting, scratching, contensly licking me and my family and howling alot and trying to atack the dogs next door and trying to run at cars what do i do to fix my animal i dont want to have the take him to the pound what do I do??
Information About Separation Anxiety
There are a number of different ways that separation anxiety can manifest: urinating or defecating indoors, destructive behaviors, digging at doors, etc. Fortunately, a variety of treatments have been developed to help diminish your dog's anxiety. Treatments range from behavior modification training to a veterinarian prescribing medications. Here's a link with an article providing more information about separation anxiety.
Can't leave my pup!
I live in an apt and when I leave to work I put my 17 month old poodle schnauzer Bean in the kitchen using a baby gate. He has a blanket and a toy but this is never enough. As I begin to get ready for work he begins to whine and follow me around. When I place him in the kitchen he whines and whimpers. It worsens as I lock the door and walk to my car. I feel absolutely horrible when this behavior occurs but have no clue how to solve it. I am gone about 5 hours for work and bean is walked as soon as I get home as he is walked right before he is placed in the kitchen too. I have even tried to not place him in the kitchen when I leave for work and still his seperation anxiety persisits. I am worried my neighbors will begin to complain or worse, that this behavior could effect his health.
Please help!
~g
Seperation Anxiety
I have a 5 month old Schnoodle named Little Man. When we got him my husband and I were working opposite shifts so someone was always home w/ him. Now we work the same days and he is not taking it well. I have a cat and another dog but he seems to be so upset whenever I go to the door. He goes w/ me on most errands. Yesterday I went to run an errand I couldn't take him on. My husband was cutting grass so I left him in the yard. He followed me all the way down the dirt rd to the paved round and kept going until I stopped and let him in the car. It was half a mile, thank goodness we live in the country. He is more attached to me. I talked to his vet and he said to leave him alone for a few hours and and as time goes by increase the length on time. So far he hasn't had to many potty accidents in the house but he destroys anything he can. Does ur schnoodle do that too when u leave. I don't know anyone else who has this type of dog. He is a little over 6 pounds and won't get any bigger. He is the most loving and smart dog I have ever known. U can email me at carrietm@embarqmail.com
anxiety
Hey all!
We adopted a 5 yr old boxer/pit mix. Hank is a very sad dog. He is very sweet and not violent or mean. He sleeps with me at night in my bed. We bought him a wire cage that he has chewed the metal bars out of when we leave him. We purchased a chainlink fence that he is still chewing and digging at the cement floor. We have his bed, carpet , toys, and our old clothes in to help comfort him. We leave the TV on so he will have some sound. He has torn his toe nails and has sores on his nose. We love him so much but don't know how to help him. The vet suggests sedatives that we don't think are a good idea becuse he sleeps whenever we are home. We walk him before we leave and take him for long walks. He is so good he doesn't even need a leash! What can we do?
Seperation Anxiety Help Please
I have a 17 month old poodle schnacher named Bean. As I begin to get ready to leave the house he follows me around and even starts to whine a little because he knows I'm leaving. We live in an apt where we leave him in our good size kitchen (gaurded with a baby gate) when we leave to work. He is house broken but still do this just in case. I put him in the kitchen with a toy and his blanket but still everytime, everyday as I leave for work he whines and cries and I am worried our neighbors will start to complain as it echos through our complex. He is walked in the morning and taken to the park for about 30 mins before he gets put into the kitchen. What can I do to stop this behavior????
Separation Anxiety
I have a 2 yr. old German Shepherd who I have had since she was 8 weeks old. She used to have really bad separation anxiety and would cry non-stop, chew on walls (leaving only the metal corner strip behind), tear up rugs, etc. We started trying the following things to see if we could ease her anxiety and it seemed to work: we would get all of our things ready to leave (shoes on, bags at the door, etc), then we would get a really yummy treat that she loves (Our little girl loves baby carrots) and would place the treat into her Kong Ball and be happy about all of it (let her see the treat and share her excitement about the treat), we then would toss the kong ball w/ the treat onto her downstairs bed (or anywhere else she is really comfortable), and then leave without a word or looking back...and do this quickly. We started by leaving her alone for 30 mins, increasing the time increments by 30 mins, until we were finally able to leave without her crying for us. Now when I leave, I simply toss her treat onto her bed, and she could literally care less about me leaving because she knows that I will be back. In fact she can't wait till I go so that she can GET her treat. :) No more chewing, ripping, etc. Hope this may help others.
The non-calm member of our pack
We have two boxers (5 & 11) and a Pointer/Staff mix (13mo) in our pack. The Boxers gladly sleep all day in the kennel without a problem. Unfortunately our other dog has separation anxiety and shreds everything in the kennel including the other dogs beds.
This is a problem since our oldest dog had Degenerative Myopathy and requires a bed due to his condition.
We use the suggested techniques prior to taking them to the kennel before leaving for the day, and have included other healthy distractions for the dogs while we are away.
We are strong pack leaders and followed your techniques to great success in all other areas.
I am afraid we will have to give up our youngest member of the pack for adoption if we cant kennel them together during the day.
Help?
David
SERIOUS SEPARATION ANXIETY
Hi my name is Sadie. My dog's name is Titan, he is an 11 month old red nosed pitbull. He is a very loving and affectionate dog. However, he has problems when we leave him alone. We tried at first to not put him in a crate, but when we did this he would chew up anything and everything around the house. When we put him in the crate, he barks and whines and cries. Not to mention the most recent development, now he has chewed the top of his plastic crate and shoved his head through it which resulted in 5 inch cuts along his throat and cuts all over his nose and mouth. So we tried to get a metal crate, thinking that it would be better for him because he could see all over and have more room. We tried to make this new crate a "den" and teach him that it was his and that he should like to go in it, we put his toys and his bed in it and he seems to go into it fine. But when we return home we find that he has been trying to force his way out of the kennel. He's escaped twice already and has bent the poles already, leaving himself with a swollen nose. I don't understand why my dog would inflict so much pain on himself and it makes me scared to leave him because I can't stand to see him in pain. I have tried everything and I don't know what to do anymore. I love my dog and I need to find a way to make him happy.
There is a better metal crate
There is a better metal crate you can buy on amazon. http://www.amazon.com/Black-Commercial-Quality-Kennel-Wheels/dp/B002Z2XAJO/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=home-garden&qid=1266014453&sr=8-1 I got one and it worked for a while, but now my pit has figured out he can somehow get out the top of it and he just keeps doing it. It might work for you though. If you get it, buy chain to put around the doors when you latch them. The latch is very flimsy and cheap. My pit has never messed with the side door, but there is a door on top because it can also be used for a bird cage and I didn't chain that door from the start, so he got out once and now that I chain it he just goes until he bends one of the bars enough to get out. My vet also recommended valerian root, which is over the counter valium. I got 450mg and they said I could give him up to 5 at a time. I only gave two with two benadryl, check with your vet about this first, but it is now not working and we have been referred to a behaviorist. FYI--it is a neutered male pit 2 yrs old and he just developed this over the last few months.
Metal Crate
A strong crate is not necessarily the answer to prevent your dog trying to get out due to separation anxiety. I made that mistake, buying a strong metal crate which I got my dog used to while I was in the house. The first time he was in it when I went out I came home to find my dog (20kg) had forced the bars with his teeth to make a 3 inch gap which he had forced his body through - how he got his head and ribcage through I cannot imagine. The crate was wrecked, there was blood on the carpet where he had hurt his mouth, he was in a terrible state as was I when I found what had happened. You need to deal with the separation anxiety before finding ways to contain the dog - not easy as two years on I still have the same problem with the dog barking incessantly for hours when I'm not here.
Seperation Anxiety
We just got a new 5 month old Beagle puppy who has separation Anxiety. I usually always take him for a long walk before putting him in the crate. He is fine in the crate as long as someone is in the room with him, he will chew on his bone, eat a little snack or fall asleep. However if you leave the room to go to the bathroom even, he howls, and will continue this until you are back in the room. I try to only let him out or walk into the room when he is quiet. I have heard that the previous owners left him in the crate while they went to work and got rid of him because of this behavior. I have tried leaving him out of the crate and just going to another room and he howls. I am doing short sessions with him to get him used to the idea but it does not seem to be working at all. What am I missing??
HELP
i have a similar problem, my dog howls and barks all day whe i'm not around
. Did anyone give you any good tips??
Same here...
I have a pup and she does the same thing... Any Advice will help!
Reply
This sounds exactly like my puppy. Did anyone give you any good answers cause she is driving us and our neighbours nuts. Thanks!
Michelle
Separation Anxiety
Hello from Ireland Cesar!
I am in big trouble with a small girl only eight weeks old. She is a beautiful West Highland Terrier i only have her four days (and four very long nights!)she is hoarse from crying at night when we go to bed - i keep her in the utillity room which is two metres by three metres floor space,is this enough space for her (she's tiny!).I dont really want to share my bedroom with her have you any solutions?I'm scared i may be doing her long term damage my husband is convinced if i give in now we are doomed,
Hugs and best wishes
from Eire,
Did you get a reply?
My yorkie poo is having the same problem, did you get a reply? Would you mind sharing?
Thanks!
catgentry
Separation Anxiety
I have a 1 year old English Mastiff. I have had him since he was 6 weeks old and had him completely potty trained by 16 weeks. I don't have room in my apartment for a crate big enough for him, so I shut the doors and leave him in the living room when I'm gone, which worked fine for several months. Over the last couple of months, however, he has started peeing or pooing in the floor EVERY time I leave the house. He has also torn up mini-blinds and pulled carpet up and destroyed padding underneath. I went to a local herb shop and bought some anxiety drops the lady said that handlers give their dogs before shows to calm them down, but they have not done any good. I take him for walks before I leave him and I don't make a big deal of leaving by telling him goodbye or anything. I am nearly at wits end! I love him to pieces and don't want to give him up. Any suggestions?
My Jack Russell cries when I leave her
My little Jack Russell girl runs toward me when I leave out the door for even 2 minutes. She barks and cries and sits at the door until I come back. I live in an apartment which she does well but she has separation anxiety so bad that I do not know what to do. She also cries and barks when she is in the car with me when I leave for a little while. What can I do?
Hello, I have a 5 year
Hello,
I have a 5 year old Shih Tzu and I have the same issue. I know that I have spoiled him and treated him like he is my baby. Maybe that is part of the issue. I am at a loss as well. Please let m eknow if you get an answer on this. I am very interested in helping my dog to calm down and know I will always come home for him.
Separation Anxiety
I have a 5 yr old Australian Shepherd. (Dash) I've had him since he was 8 wks old. He has had this problem for years now and I have been finding that is getting worse. We used to crate him but he would get out and destroy the house. He would soil and urinate all over. So I have just been leaving him outside. Then he started destroying things outside when we leave. He doesn't do anything if I leave him out all day when we are home, only when we leave. We tryed putting him in a outdoor kennel but he gets out of that too. Im a stay at home mom and hardly leave the place, We live out in the county and he has plenty of things to do. So I have just started taking him with us when we go to town, just to keep him out of trouble, but I get scared that he will start destroying my car if I leave him to long, and if I put him in the back of the truck he always trys to jump out, im too scared to tie him back there because he may get over the side and choke. I just don't know what to do with him anymore. We love him to death and he is great with our kids and a great watch dog but I can't deal with the way he has been acting. Is it something, Im doing? We take him out for walks all he time and even let him run with us when we ride the horses. I know he is a herding dog and we tryed to get him to work the sheep but he has no interest in them, He almost seems scared of them. He has never has a bad experance with them or anything, Im just not sure what is wrong.
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Aussies are very smart dogs, and they are not happy unless they are working hard for you. You might want to try taking him for a walk every day at the same time so he can know when to expect you to "give him something to do." You can also take him to a local park to play frisbee/catch and let him get all that energy out. He just needs you to let him know that you need him, so keeping him busy and occupied is what he loves! I have an Aussie and she is 3 months old, we have only had her for a week and she already shows signs of wanting to get out and do stuff. She's beautiful, and she's gonna be keeping us on our toes thats for sure! good luck to you
retrieving retriever
dear Cesaro,
hello my name is Darrian minor. i have a 10 year old Japanese Akita named Mulan. we've had her since she was a puppy. she is an absolute angel. the only problem we have ever had with her was that she would take stuffed animal remotes etc. and bury them. but we have just gotten a 9 month old golden retriever puppy from my aunt and we thought that if we got the puppy Isabella then mulan would have a friend to play with. that all is working out fine. but you see. Isabella is very attached to me and when i leave even if other people are in the house she starts to chew thing up and cry. in the beginning we put her in a metal kennel that my aunt had given us, but when i had left for school she would bend the bars to try and find some way to get out. when i would come home i would find her out of her kennel chewing on something/anything. the kennel was trashed so we had to through it out. so we left her out with my other dog mulan thinking that mulan would keep her in check knowing that mulan is the dominate type. yet when i come home from school something has been torn up. clothes, bamboo stick, stuffed animals, etc. it got so bad to where she pulled the carpet up and tour chunks out of the carpet padding underneath and she had gotten into a box of heart guard and had to get her stomach pumped. my parents and i had thought it might be she was ripping up my clothes because it had my sent on them so i had taken one of the sox's she tore a hole through and put in another one then tide a knot around it and gave it to her to play with thinking it would help. it hasn't one bit. when i left one time my grand mother had said that Isabella had cried nonstop while i was gone. i don't know what to do. i don't want to get rid of her. shes been to 4 different homes and she is such a sweet dog. i don't want to give up on her but i don't know what else to do
please help.
thanks,
darrian minor
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Separation issues
Hi
I have a 17 month old Beagle that suffers from really bad separation anxiety. I've had her since she was 8 weeks old and she's always had problems when we leave the house. I've tried so many different ways to deal with this but can't seem to make her at ease. I am a stay at home Mom so I am with her for most of the day...but not all day. She used to stay in a plastic crate when we left the house. One day we got home (after a one hour trip to the store) to find a blood covered crate and 2 pairs of chewed up shoes. So we got her a metal crate thinking that she couldn't chew through it and also maybe being able to see things better would put her more at ease. She destroyed the thick plastic bottom of that then ripped up the carpet where she could reach it. This is all happening in a couple hour increments. Now we leave her out, but close all the doors, and give her a couple toys to chew on while we're out. I am now coming home to problems of peeing and pooping on the floor, a hole in the side of my couch and a hole in my purse.
About 2 months ago she started growling at the kids and has bit them a few times as well. I'm at my wits end with her. I feel like I've tried all I can think of. It's starting to hurt our family life. Please HELP us!
Thank you.
I feel your pain
I feel your pain. I have a 5 year old beagle, we rescued less than 1yr. ago, and she is making me insane!!! She is destructive in her kennel, she destroyed the plastic pan and whatever she can reach with her foot in a 3 foot radius of her kennel. She now has plywood as the base of her kennel which is getting mighty stinky becuase she is always urinating and defecting in the kennel. When I leave her free in the house she leaves, not so lovely presents in the home. I know it is separation anxiety, but in order for us to feed her we have to work. And we live in the midwest so we can't leave her out in the snow and below freezing temperatures while we are at work. When we are home she is a perfect angel. She has a great personality and is very sweet. If you get any good tips please share.
What I would do is take the
What I would do is take the dog for a walk before making her enter the crate. That will help her drain energy and put her in a calm-submissive state. Then, when you're putting her in the crate, don't shut the door until she is relaxed and not on edge. At first, you can start with small time increments, and when you come back don't open the door until she's calm submissive again. You want her to associate the crate with being in a relaxed state, so that she thinks of it as a safe area and not feel that the crate is a negative thing.
Separation issues
I am having a similar problem with my Standard poodle. He is housetrained, but WILL NOT crate! He pees in it everytime I leave him alone. I am also a stay at home mom, and I have tried everything, including leaving him in a bathroom. Doesn't matter where I leave him, if I go out of the house, he pees. I am at my wits end! I don't know what to do.