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Persistent Anxiety and Fear

Cesar,

I have a two-year-old Pomeranian who is afraid of everything; and so worried about things falling on him.  Although since I've had him (about one year), nothing has fallen on him.  He even approaches his food dish as if a snake will attack at any minute.

  Drinking water is the same, he is always prepared to run away.  I have tried to show calm and assertive direction and a matter-of-fact attitude.  Is there anything more I can do?

Alice Jackson

Dear Alice,

This sounds like a self-esteem problem, so you must approach it delicately. We want to challenge the dog physically and mentally with things like obstacle courses, busy environments, and any situation in which the dog can get feedback from other, more confident dogs. We have a case right now that will be in Season Four which is very similar. The name of the dog in this case is Luna, and she is afraid of everything. Even the wind scares her; she comes into a room and sees “ghosts.” Every part of her is on hyper alert – her nose, her eyes, her ears – and everything makes her afraid. We’re trying to bring her around by helping her self-esteem to blossom, and that’s all about exposing the dog to many different situations.

Helping a dog build self-esteem is a very, very long process, and not nearly as fast as aggression rehabilitation. You have to build confidence slowly, and the way you build it is by helping the dog to repeatedly accomplish small goals. Practice obedience training, practice obstacle courses; they don’t have to be champions, but they have to go out and do it. With every success comes a little more confidence. 

Choose the right trainers. The trainers are going to help you to find the right energy in yourself, to help provide the support your dog needs. You have to be thinking about that rehabilitation, and about training yourself just as you train your dog. To do that, YOU have to have a good role model. The role model will guide and ensure that your dog is always getting the best out of you. Remember, it takes time, dedication, and patience above all else. Good luck.

Stay calm and assertive,

Cesar Millan

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Nervous rescue dog

Dear Cesar,

We recently rescued a dog from the local shelter, he's called Woody and he's a Lurcher (I don't know if you use term Lurcher in the US, but in the UK a Lurcher is a sighthound crossed with another dog, usually a herding dog or terrier). We believe he's a Greyhound / Lab cross. He was picked up as a stray. We've had him about 4 weeks now.

He's a very gentle and affectionate dog and his rehabilitation in coming on great, but we have a few problems we could really do with advice with. He's very submissive, perhaps overly so, but the biggest problem is that he will, if given the chance run out the door and no amount of commands no matter how assertive we are, he'll run off like a rocket. Having Greyhound in him, it is impossible to catch up to him. He'll ALWAYS return several hours later. But he acts scared to come back through the door in to the house. It takes hours and hours of coaxing him with food and treats to get him back in the house and when he finally does come into the house, he expects to be punished by rolling on his back and shaking.

He also has a problem with other dogs, he gets very worked up when going past other dogs, but he's coming from a very nervous angle and not an aggressive one. He's not an aggressive dog.

It goes without saying, we are following Cesar's Way to the letter, but perhaps there is something we are missing. We can't have a door open without having Woody on a leash.

Are we just being impatient and should we just give him more time, considering he is a stray?

It's also important that I mention that he is very respectful of us and the house. He walks on leash very well when there are no dogs; he's excellent with the small pets and is very respectful around food. However, despite this respectfulness, his tail stays between his legs a lot of the time.

Any advice would be very gratefully received!

Fearful Shih Tzu

Hi Cesar,

Miracle(3 year old spayed female) is afraid of dogs and puppies. She was playfully attacked by a Corgi puppy at Puppy Kindergarten when she was around 6 months old and is still fearfull. She loves people and children...her job is a Pet Therapy Dog with a national organization here in Tampa Fl. I puppy sat a 8 week old toy female poodle for a day in my home and Miracle went crazy....she ran away from the puppy, barking and growling, the little puppy really wanted to play with her and she was not having it. Later that evening, Miracle vomited several times and the next day she had bloody diarrhea. I went on line and found out that some toy/small breeds will react intestinally due to stress. She did participate in agility training when she was around 2 years old. What can we do to help her? She does have 3 unneutered friends in the neighborhood and has no fear of them until thay become a little aggressive.

Cora, the shy dog.

When I saw the episode with Luna, I could relate, because I recently adopted a 3 year old German Sheperd/unknown mix, Cora, who had a fear of everything. She was caught while pregnant and had her pups the next day. She remained at the SPCA for 3 months and was adopted once but returned within a week. I was told that she most likely never lived in a home and any sudden noise scared her. She would freeze on the spot and shake and she had never barked. She would stare at thin air and avoid all eye contact. When i brought her home she was scared of my cat, who gently decided to take her under his wings. I noticed that his calm energy relaxed her as well as long walks, music, watching The Dog Whisperer ;) and she LOVES chasing rabbits. I also started socializing her with other dogs. So after three months of great progress we finally decided to get a puppy, a Golden Retriever/Great Pyrenees, Clayton. After only two weeks, he finally got her to bark, at him, but at least we know she has it in her. Cora is still on a long road to recovery and still shies away from some human attention, but she's getting there. Our main problem now is the Clay won't leave our poor cat alone and that is dangerous for both of them :(, he's only 11 weeks, but he begins puppy obedience classes on Sunday...

Thanks to The Dog Whisperer I was able to cure Cora from her fear of cars, other dogs, cats, loud noises, even vacuums and baths. I learned not to baby her fears, to reward wanted behavior and streghthen her trust in me through our daily walks and stimulated her with knew challenges that allowed her confidence to grow :)

Fearful dogs

I will be very interested in watching the episode featuring Luna. I have a 6 year old female cocker spaniel named Cocoa who was rescued from a puppy mill operation out of Missouri a few years ago. She came to me with eye and ear infections, was approximately 12 pounds overweight (and she's a petite American cocker, she was almost TWICE her ideal weight!). She's highly fearful of EVERYTHING.

We have had her two years now and she has yet to bark. I've heard her vocalize with a yawn ONCE, and a quiet growl once, but nothing else. She's terrified by any loud noise or sudden move, and spends most of her time huddled behind any piece of furniture that's close to me. She has improved since we got her, but my heart breaks for her. I don't want her to be so afraid.

One other thing: she's attacked our elderly cocker several times, the provocation being a growl from the Old Man. She's very timid and shy otherwise, but when he'd growl at her, she'd latch on and not want to drop the fight, even after they were separated. We haven't had the problem for awhile now, since we keep them separated during feeding time or any other time food is involved, as that's the only time Lucky would growl at her.It's like the growling triggers some massive fight reflex in her.

Anyway, I'm rambling. I look forward to the Luna episode and learning some ways I can help Cocoa become more comfortable and confident.

~K

my german shepherd

hi cesar
i am pritty sure my 2 and a half year old german shepherd has an anxiety problem when she was a pup even now i take her every where with me and there are some places i can't take her with my and i leave her home with my parents and they said the minute i walk out the door she whines and whimpers and runs around looking for me and i also think she is fear aggresion cause when i walk her she is constantly pulling and growling and lunging at other dogs i never socialized her and her hair is up if i dog is tyed in there back yards and they bark she bolts to get away dragging me down the road with her



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