Dear Cesar,
My daughter has a ten-month-old black cocker spaniel. She has a submissive urination problem, like all female cocker spaniels. My own cocker spaniel has outgrown this problem. However, my daughter's cocker is getting worse. She has a six-year-old boy and four-year-old girl and a four-year-old viszla. My daughter's cocker Ginny is now urinating in her crate. She urinates if you talk to her, if the kids play with her, and even if her husband reaches down to pet her. My daughter has tried everything and is ready to get rid of the puppy.
HELP! Do you have any advice on what to do???
Thank you,
Fran Petersen
Dear Fran:
It's a common habit to blame a dog's troublesome behaviors on its "breed", but this is something that I personally disagree with. You say that "all female cockers" have submissive urination problems, but I know of many cocker spaniels who don’t urinate when submitting, or when called to be in a submissive position. Conversely, I've experienced a multitude of other full and mixed breeds - small and large - that do exhibit this particular problem! Be careful about writing a dog off because it's got a reputation as a "problem breed." I believe there are no problem breeds, only problem owners.
Now, getting back to Ginny. It sounds to me that she may be easily excitable. If so, talking to her and petting her when she is in an unstable, excited state is not recommended. It only nurtures the unwanted behavior. What she may need is to release her pent-up energy, then return to a quiet, safe space. My first recommendation is to take Ginny out on walks more frequently. I also strongly suggest your daughter make an appointment with her vet to see if there are any health issues, such as a bladder or kidney infection. If Ginny's health checks out, then I'd advise you contact a qualified dog trainer who can help your daughter with Ginny's potty training, and to help Ginny learn the rules, boundaries, and limitations of your daughter's home. Best of luck!
Stay calm and assertive,
Cesar Millan
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Tinkling
My bull arab tank used to do that from the time he was about 3 months old he would get so exited when we came home that he would pee then he would go into submission and pee again! at 1st i was very worried about it then realised that I would pass on my stress to my dog so my partner and I got a battle plan together and decided that everytime he peed we would not touch or talk to him until he was sitting calmly basicaly we ignored his nervous pee when he settled down we would quietly give him a pat and some praise soon the exited peeing stopped but when ever he submitted he would do it again so we would just walk away for a minute he would follow we would have him sit then drop and rollover into the submit position quietly and calmly we would praise him and so we got him into the pose everyday and he would just lay there nice and calm after another couple of weeks no more exited tinkling, please dont let your daughter give the dog away we had tank checked it wasnt a health issue it was an exitement issue even now he does not get attention when hes too exited and neither does our 1 year rotty x they only get praise for calm behavior keep trying!!!!
My experience with anxiety urination
My husband brought a 2 yr old Australian Shepard into our home. She was a rescue and had no "manners" at all. We knew she had the ability to become a wonderful part of the family except for the piddling. We began treating the frequent over-excited states with no looking/touching/talking when coming home until she was more calm. More exercise. Food was the key to basic training and snapping her out of over excited states. Her leader tendencies decreased with having her dinner after we had eaten. Certain jestures were recognized as piddling triggers (speaking to her and reaching forward to touch her). Still problems persisted and even I was ready to give up. The vet gave her a clean bill of health. Now what?
We changed our approach with her. If she piddled- no talking to her/ no anger. Piddling meant the chin touched the pee and she was escorted to the backyard for a while. We changed how we communitcated with her by trying to focus on what we were thinking. If we were introducing someone, which can be very anxiety producing, we introduce them outside the house. Lots of potty breaks where we go outside with her and go back in together after she pees. I spent more time on the floor to be her level. I sit and let her come to me to give me kisses and receive lots of petting. She would lie next to me touching my body, which she did not do before. I give her kisses on her mussel and talked to her about how special she is. She now piles on the master bed when we have family TV so she is laying "with the pack". Her trust has increased and she seems to be improving by leaps and bounds. There is a deep closeness now. It's not perfect yet, but we are getting there and just like life, it's a work in progress. Good luck!
Submissive Urination
I've always found that confidence building, like positive reinforcement basic obedience, along with regular daily exercise and little or no scolding/punishment, can do wonders for a dog who is showing signs of submissive urination. There are a ton of other things going on here -- as well as ways to solve this problem, which can really get annoying! Try http://www.dogdaysusa.com/submissiveurination.html out and see how that helps the situation.
Good luck!
An unusual Jesture
Hi Cesar,
We adopted a 2 year old Pom cross from our neighborhood shelter about a month ago. We named him Danny Boy. He's a sweet little dog with a few minor behavioral problems. But basically, he's a loving little guy and well house trainied. He loves my husband above all others and has proved it by submissive tinkles that at first we didn't understand or know how to handle, but we are slowly bringing the tinkling under control. Tonight, Danny did a very unusual thing, anyhow it seemed that way to me. He always has chew bones and tonight, out of the blue, he brought his chew bone to my husband and gave it to him. Rich took it and even pretended to chew on it while Danny watched. Then Danny took his bone and went back to his place at Rich's feet and chewed on the bone. Does this mean something significant? I, myself, thought it was pretty darn sweet.
Thanks for listening,
Tina spencer