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Dog Attacking Pack Mate

Hi Cesar,

I LOVE YOUR SHOW! I hope you can help me. I have two rescued mutts:

1. Lizzie - 4-and-a-half-year-old, 75 lb Heeler mix female. I got her as a small puppy. Very lovable to people but afraid of most dogs and attacks her dog mate.

2. Rocky - eight-month-old, 34 lb, very short Lab mix male. Got him a month ago. Very sweet obedient, energetic. His only issue is separation anxiety.

Lizzie attacks Rocky when there is a toy or treat that she wants, when he tries to jump up on the bed with me at night, and sometimes for no apparent reason. It is very scary, and it looks like she wants to kill him although there have never been any injuries. This happened a couple of weeks ago when I was bending over to get a dog toy from under the couch, and my face was in the wrong place when she attacked Rocky. I got a bad scratch from eye to chin. She also did this with Henry my nine-year-old Terrier mix that died from cancer in July.

Can you make any suggestions?

Thank you so much!

Connie Williams
Tucson, AZ

Dear Connie,

Lizzie is definitely letting you know that she is the leader of your household pack. No questions about it. If she displayed the same behaviors with the previous dog in the house, then she is simply re-asserting her leadership role in the house with the new dog, Rocky. Dogs don't say to each other "Well, since you're new to the house, being a puppy and all, I'll let you get away with stepping over my boundaries." In Lizzie's mind, you and Rocky should obey her. I would seriously consider hiring a professional to get you started on the road to leadership. Make sure that you ask the professional you choose to show you some ways to create boundaries for Lizzie. But remember, leadership needs follow-through,and must be a 24-hour-a-day, 7-day-a-week job. Projecting consistent, calm-assertive energy is the first step on your journey to becoming leader of your pack.

Stay calm and assertive,

Cesar Millan

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Old Dog become aggresive with her house mate

Hi Cesar! Your shows and your actions are great! I am writing this because my six year old daughter wants to call you to help our dear old Lucy (dalmatian) to manage her agression against our also dear old Orion (rottweiler).

Lucy: More than 11 years old, 18 kg. Recently sterilized. She arrived at home when she was 8 months old. She is sweet with people, but she has attacked other female dogs at parks when she was around 2 years old and since then I keep her far away of other female dogs. She used to have a good relationship with Orion.

Orion: More than 10 year old, 50 kg. He arrived to our live when he was a little puppy. Lucy became a mother to him. Orion received behavior classes and we did dominance exercises with him because he is a powerful dog. Although it is a dominant dog,he respects Lucy

Around 10 months ago She started to be more agressive with Orion. This behavior has gotten worst after she was sterilized and my brother (Orion´s real owner) went out of the country. Orion was very depressed with the absence of my brother, so I took special care of him. After few weeks he adopted me as his new "owner". At the begining we thought Lucy was jealous, even though I still took care of her as usual. We asked the Vet and She said it is normal becoming agresive with age, isn´t it?

I would like to recover the harmony between them. Thanks your shows i realice that they need exercise (After my kid was born, I rarely walk the dogs) I am going to begining with that and I was thinking about do dominace exercise with Lucy because she does not give up with her agression ( she does not change her mental state) when i am correcting her, even though she use to be very docile.

I am a little worry because I and my child will be out of home for 4 month and my mother (who live with us) will take care of them. She never have been a lider for them so the agresive behavior could be gotten worst and probably Orion will be very depressed again.
Any tips?

Thanks and keep doing so beautiful labor!
Mariana (Venezuela)

Our staffy puppy

Hi Cesar,

I have an 8 week old staffordshire bull terrier called Beau but i have become worried. He was the normal puppy for the 1st few days but then became aggressive. My 7yr old daughter had him on her lap and she moved to go and play in garden when he began groweling at her. I came into the room to let him know this is unacceptable behaviour but when i picked him up to put him in his cage, he then continued to go for myself and i had to hold him by the back of the neck otherwise he would have bitten me. This has happened on a few occations now, even when he urinates on the floor and i let him know this is wrong he gets aggressive and goes for you. I have also noticed that my 1 yr old staffy Max backs away from him when he is in this zone. Is there any pointers you could give me please? Many thanks Kirstie, from Kent

Lily

Kirstie,

We have a Bull Terrier who is 2 named Lily and Beau sounds exactly the same! They are some of the most stubborn and excitable dogs I've ever seen. We got a trainer to come and work with Lily and they said that we have to be VERY strict on her. Here are some tips they gave us that we are working on now, you may have already done all this but maybe it can help.....
- feed the other dogs first and make him wait/ walk through doors first
- hand feed him (if he's like Lily, he eats WAY too fast and is aggressive about food)
- take him on two walks a day (this is the hardest thing for us- finding time)
- don't let them on furniture- give them A LOT of boundries
- don't show them any attention unless they are completely submissive and calm
- don't get frustrated, it only makes them more excitable
- if you give them a command and they do not follow it right away make them (for example, if you say "come" and they don't go get them- this is hard with lily because she runs away and then steals things in her path like pillows!)
- when acting like they are going to attack another dog, don't pull them away, pull them up quickly, they will want to go into forward attack more if you pull them back. They will grab anything they can if you pull back and its hard to get them to let go
- sometimes you just have to put her away if she's out of control and let him know that it is your house

I hope you have good luck. They're such great dogs when they're well behaved. I don't think it's an easy road though. We just took Lily for a walk tonight and she bit our other dog because we were pulling her back from another dog walking down the street, but nothing serious. She's always testing us! Let me know if you've have any tips for us. It sounds like we're in the same boat!

Deadly fights

Hello,
hi my name is joanne i have 4 jack russels grandma , mum , dad and baby thy
all got on together untill recently . now the grandma and the baby carnt stand the sight of each other they started to fight really bad, if left one would die im sure, thy have really bad injuries ,i really want to resolve it. we have tried thm with muzzels on and taking thm for a walk together on their own but thy still want to attack each other, please help

Agression towards family members

Hello Cesar:

Thank you for reading my comment. I have 4 dalmatian dogs (father, mother and two males from their litter) . All the males have been fixed as the youngest of them have 2 years old already.
The father was trained in a school and right now he is 7 1/2 years old. The mother was trained by me and she is very sweet. The problem comes with one of the young ones (both also trained by me).
They are all aware that I am the leader. They all follow my orders whenever I give them. I can even break a fight between them just by telling them to stop. The thing is that recently, the dog I am having problems with, became aggressive toward family members. He has already bitten one of my husband's sons without apparent reason. I also saw him charge against my husband's daughter only because one of the other dogs barked at her at night. Fortunately, I was there to tell him NO.
They all live at a huge front yard where they can run and play. I just lock them up whenever strange people come into the house (friends, suppliers, etc).
I don't know what is the problem that has recently unleashed his aggressiveness. I am very concerned about this because I love my dogs very much. Please help me understand what is happening and what can I do to correct this behavior.

My pack

I have great respect for people who who can communicate and understand animals. My problem is I have a house full of high energy rat terriers and one is not getting along with everybody. Little Bit(4yr,18 lbs),Aubree (2yr,22 lbs) and Teancy (8yr,12.5lbs). My Grandpuppy is Izzy (also a rat terrier, 11/2yr,16lbs) which gets dropped off every morning for the work day. Everyone was doing well until we rescued Teancy who had been caught in a trap and nearly straved to death before she chewed her own foot off to get loose. Sweet as Teancy is the other girls (all spayed) think that if she growls she's asking to be chewed up. I think it means stay away I'm scared. Little Bit is the ring leader and is clearly in charge. And will lead the others into a fight they probably wouldn't have started. She's a bully, and acts as if she is responsible for everyone's behavior. I have them all crate trained and since we all can't be in the same room, we swap out who's in the crate. I recently use a muzzle sometimes on Little Bit to keep Teancy safe,but Teancy is still scared. I'm lost and need help.

masfiff and pit attacking each other

Well it happened, no matter what I have tried in the techniques I've incorporated through watching and reading from you. I have failed to prevent my 8 month old pit bull "Baby" and my 7 year old Mastiff "Nakita" from fighting. This morning it was the worst attack yet. I actually discovered something I think may be part of the problem though. However, dealing with these outburst is taking its toll on all of us, trying to break them apart it becoming more and more difficult. What I discovered is that I believe my mastiff is the true instigator in some of the events if not all. Our mastiff was the first to so aggression this morning when my pit was in the bowing position or play position. Once my mastiff growled the fight was on, I was alone and it was very difficult to break them apart in trying I was bitten on the finger by one of them not sure who at this point. It is tearing my heart out I love both of these dogs so much. The thing about their attacks is that "Baby" is so strong my mastiff is old and doesn't back down but this morning "Baby" got her down and went for her neck, it was the most terrifying thing I have experienced. I have an eighty year old mother and a sister who is suffering with terminal breast cancer living with me if this happened while I wasn't home I am so afraid of the outcome. I know you are currently taking application for people in California but I desperately need you Cesar, there is know one in my area who could ever compare to your knowledge or expertise. Please hear my plea for help.
At the end of my rope,
Wanda B

Younger male attacking Alpha

Ceasar

Thanks for the good work you do.

We have 3 males and 3 females. It is with the males that the problem lies. We have an airedale that is 13 years old, a German Shepard that is around 10 years old and a black lab this around 7 years old.

These dogs lived together for about 3 years without any trouble. The Airedale and Shepard were already grown when we got the lab at about 3 months of age. That was in mid 2004, I think.

There were a two times that the Airedale and Shepard fought. However the shepard now yields to all of the other dogs though he could easily dominate against any of them. He simply doesn't want trouble.

After that it never started with the Airedale and shepard. The lab used to start fights with the German Shepard and the Airedale would inevitably join in on the attack. This happened several times but we always separated them. Shortly after we had the lab neutered he attacked the shepard. I pulled him off then held him down and screamed in his ear for a few minutes. That seemed to scare it out of him for a while. We had about two years of peace afterwords.

Then two weeks ago the lab and Airedale got into a scrap. I didn't witness this one. My wife pulled them apart and separated them.

Then it happened again this past Saturday. I don't know who or what caused it but there was no food involved. It occurred in the hall.

Monday the lab pounced on the German Shepard after he carried off a piece of pizza that had been dropped on the floor.. I pulled them apart before they could lock up. Later in the evening after the lab had been outside a while I let him in. The shepard and airedale walked up but I don't recall any growling or posturing on their part. The lab growled and I gave him a light slap to the nose and told him to hush. Ican see how this was a mistake now. Then all hell broke loose. The airedale and labe lurched toward one another. I grabbed one in each hand and held them apart. The German shepard got behind me and stuck his head between my knees and began barking. I held them all in place until my wife escorted the shepardand airedale into the hall and put up a gate to separate them from the lab. They were not injured but I received bites on both hands.

I have kept them separate since then.

Does this sound like a situation that can be corrected?

Same problem

I am having the same problem. I foster rescue dogs and in the last couple of months taken in a couple of new ones. I have two others here at home that I ended up adopting. Nikko is 14 years old and completely blind and loves sleeping with me (King Charles Spaniel), then I have Molly (My baby who is a chiuaua/pub mix and she is 6 six years old. Recently I took in a AKC Pomeranian who is 10 years old and rescued from puppy mill and is docile as can be, but has other issues I will ask about later. The one I am having problems with is a one year old chiuaua/Min Pin mix name Remi. They all got along exremely well at first, now Remi is attacking Nikko the only other male, he stalks him around the house, attacks him when he gets in bed with me, he is constantly in his face day and night growling and even has peed on my bed many times to the point of having to get new things, just to mark where he believes his terroritory is. I have been putting him in a crate when he becomes very aggressive and bites Nikko. I have tried the old trick using a water bottle to deter him and it does not. I am at a complete loss of what to do next. Can someone help?

Doxie Aggression

My sister and I have 7 mini doxies, my 5 and her 2. Lately they have been attacking like peanut and chico, the chihuahua's. Mine gang up on her girl. All are neutered and spayed. We have been working with the calm, submissive attitude, however, it seems the attacks rotate through the pack. We have tried mixing up who is together and have started separate walks and training one on one's. We know they need more exercise, however, no one likes that treadmill! We are trying to think of what we can do inside to curb their need for exercise. When we walk, even one hour does nothing to their levels. Today, when someone knocked on the front door, mom put them in the kitchen, and I heard a fight from downstairs. When I came flying up they were attacking her doxie again and a slight tear in the corner of her eye occurred. Please help us gain control of this situation. We just don't know where to go to next and my sister carries her girl to go outside, which I think perpetuates the problem. I don't want to lose my dogs, and I need to stop all of the behavior, as this is just a part of it all. We are working on the wanting to chase cars, barking at everything, doorbell, guests, kids, and re-training to go potty outside. HELP Please!!!

Older dog showing dominance over new puppy.

Hi Cesar! Let me start off by saying that you are awesome, and are my hero! I have another similar situation (as Katherine's above and the couple in Orlando). Our 8 year old lab-pit mix (neutered male named Biscuit) has lived in our house as the only dog since 2002. He's unsure at times when meeting other dogs in neutral territories and on walks, but manages to get through those meetings without altercations. Last week we brought home a calm, submissive energy terrier mix (boxer and pit bull maybe) female named Pixi from the shelter.

We did everything textbook introducing the dogs in neutral territory first and taking both on a long, long walk before coming into our home. After the first day Biscuit began showing his teeth at Pixi after she began licking his face and crossing underneath his chin. From what I was told this is an act of submission. I'm confused about what the issue is with Biscuit--if it's dominance, or if it's territory, or he just doesn't like the idea of a new dog in his territory? Biscuit is submissive to me as a pack leader, all except that I need to keep correcting him when he shows his teeth. We've been really rigid with the exercise, rules, and boundaries with Biscuit (making sure he's last to leave and enter the house), and are being fair--showing no favortism with Pixi, but regardless he gets anxious and has nipped a few times; mostly when she walks by him after mealtime. We feed them both at the same time (they're both calm submissive when we feed them). Usually Biscuit begins pacing and getting anxious before and after mealtime (which is after a walk or run), and he'll show his teeth at her even when she's not instigating or bringing unwanted behavior into our den (home).

Biscuit, like the German Shepard in the above story, also doesn't like other dogs in his face, but does like it when myself, my wife or kids get in his face to show him affection (when he's calm-submissive). Regardless, I correct Pixi when she gets in his face, and I correct Biscuit when he shows his teeth. When Pixi approaches him he looks away, or gets up and moves. When they're both calm-submissive, laying on the ground on their backs, they'll get closer, but won't snuggle up next to each other like we wish they would. It's not even been 2 months since giving Biscuit the full dose of the Cesar treatment...excercise, discipline, and giving affection last, but I'm looking forward for the day that I won't have to be hawking their every move. Will this ever calm down?

If this is what it means to be the pack leader then I'm OK with it; I just think that Biscuit is only partially convinced of it, or has some territorial issues mixed into his outlook as me being the pack leader, or I'm not the pack leader yet. I took them both to a fenced in baseball diamond and threw a tennis ball around, and there was some growling, and some raised hair at first, but they were able to tire themselves out playing without any fights. Will this type of activity help with them getting along or will it instigate a fight? I don't want to just let them go at it, but I have been offered that advice from our trainer (I don't agree with it). I want them to live together but am separating them at night, and now maybe when they eat. Any advice on what Biscuit is seeing in me and in Pixi, and why he's not accepting towards Pixi? I'd love for you to show up on my doorstep one morning...but if you can't make it, what else can I do to get these beautiful dogs to co-exist? Am I doomed to hawk their every move from now on?

Sincerely with much love,

Brian McComb and family

Dog Attacking pack mate

we have 2 dogs, a 13 year old mini dachshund, Heidi, and a 2 yr old Australian Shepherd, Annie. up until about 8 months ago they got along great, as long as we kept them separated when feeding. About 8 months ago we were dog sitting for a friend (yellow lab) which we have done before the yellow lab got a bit close to Annie's toy box and she lurched at him(luckily he didn't respond back) after that Annie will attack Heidi(Heidi weighs about 10 lbs and Annie about 55) We had to take Heidi to the vet about 4 times. most of the attacks seem to happen in the kitchen(when one of us in the kitchen), not necessarily when food is being prepared. Heidi could be just walking around and Annie will attack her. I am afraid Annie will kill Heidi one day, and the vet bills are very expensive. I try to keep them separated as much as possible. Any suggestions on how to correct this behavior?

thank you,

Aggression toward older dog

We have had a lot of changes in our pack this year. We had 2 male older Dachshunds, Rowdy O's - 10 yoa and Oscar - 11 yoa. We introduced a male 5 month old Pug, Max, early in the summer into the pack. We lost one of the Dachshunds in August and found a 2 yoa miniature Dachshund, Zoey, that just fit into the pack. She was helpful to befriend Rowdy O's because Rowdy seemed to take the death of Oscar very hard. Rowdy has been deaf from birth and depends on the other dogs. Rowdy ignores Max because he is a bouncy and plays rough.

November 10th we added an 8 week puppy to the pack named Coal. He is easy going and seems to be a great addition to our household. He is already showing a lot of good learning. He is calm and looks us in the eye during feeding time. He comes when called and sits. He gets a little rough playing with Max and Zoey. We have had to band play from the house because Max gets very excited.

Last Tuesday, I was sitting in one of the chairs with Rowdy on one side and Zoey on the other. She attacked Rowdy and I addressed the attack and let her know it is not an okay behavior. When my husband came home that night, Zoey attacked Rowdy again. Wednesday night, Zoey attacked Rowdy again, and would not let go.

Since this time, we have worked very carefully with all the dogs. We have set limits, increased the exercise, and given praise for a calm pack. Zoey continues to go to level 1 around Rowdy and we correct is right away. This has worked beautifully until today. As soon as I turned my back for a moment today, she attacked Rowdy and would not let go again. Rowdy lost two teeth and is bruised from the bite.

My feeling is Zoey feels intimidated by the other dogs. We often have to calm her down when she plays with the bigger dogs. She has become obsessive with toys, especially with squeaker toys. I have had to work with her on when she can play with them. When we exercise her, she is doing beautifully with the walk, but does not seem to get tired. She has become alert and on the watch for birds, any noise, or movement in the yard or house. She seems to get annoyed when Max jumps on her and she is difficult to get into a calm state and keeping her there. My husband feels she is becoming a Red Zone dog. I don't know what I'm doing wrong!!! HELP Katharine

I have the same issue introducing a new dog into my pack.

Hi Cesar,

Love your show! My story is very similar to Kartharine's except that my 13MO Shepherd attacked my 9YR Papillon. After many stitches, staples, a drain tube and safe environment, Max survived, but I have to deal with the inevitable ... "when will it happen again?"

I have used a RF wireless collar system to help me with boundaries in my home for both dogs. Max is 9YR and does not like any other dogs in his face. Sadie Belle loves to get into everyone face, especially the cat Mr. Kitty, which they get along fine. They even have small play fights until Mr. Kitty decides he has had enough. Max, on the other hand, is not tolerant for more than a few seconds, if she comes into his face. He growls; I correct him and Sadie Belle, but I need help! The issue is that I will not be able to leave these two dogs alone together - ever!

My German Shepherd does not tolerate his growling and the fight begins. Feeding time is even worse. I cannot feed the two dogs together at all. Sadie Belle will try to dominate all the food bowls, but she only feeds from her own bowl. If Max drops food on the floor, she will "clean up" the area around the bowls, constanting looking back at Max.

When the attack first happened, I had Sadie Belle sent my dog trainer's farm for training for 2 weeks. This gave Max enough time to heal in a safe environment and time for SAdie Belle to work on her manners. She had already been to puppy training, Good Citizenship training (which she did not pass), and loves agility sports. She gets walked everyday separate from Max, and runs with me on my running days. She's a great companion for running!

I just want some sort of peace in my house that I can depend on ... is this possible??

Michele (& SadieMax) in Orlando

a friends dog

hi i love the show and i am always talking a bout the show
i have a good friend that has a jack russell terrier mix 6 month old she has had him for about 4 months and from the day she got him there was problems
this dog was rescued form a family that had too many dogs and no time he was left home alone all the time and the house was his shit box
i also rescued a black lab 8 week old and saw similar problems but i was quick to correct not to say she doesn't she has her way but thing are getting wost no mater how often and long she bring him out 10 min of being in the house he will shit or piss
the other thing is that he is starting to be aggressive a month ago i tried to claim my sweater and to get him to stop laying on them and he snapped and growled sins then it has escalated to her and her son
she was trying to get him to get off of her and he did it agent and the last incident was her son was trying to play with him and grabbed his toy well he snapped and the little boy was bit on the neck
i have tried to tell her she need to be the pack leader but she don't know how places get back to me as soon as possible is a cut dog and my friend is running out of option's

Chihuahuas

I have 2 male chihuahuas 1 year apart, they fight all the time.They will go out side but one or the other will start a fight at one point. I keep one on a lead and the other I let run free just so I can stop the fight. I can't have both on my lap at the same time becouse of the fighting. I have been bit bad by them. I just feel so bad that I can't love them at the same time or when I bring them back into the house I have to keep them apart all the time. I got two just so they can have a play mate. what can I do to make them get along?

New dog attacking older Dog

I have 2 mini poodles, one female and one male. My husband got a English Bulldog that is now 7 months old. Winston the English has been here since he was about 2 months old. Jasper, my male poodle didn't like Winston from the day we brought him home. He growls at him and snapped at him every time Winston got close to him. Jasper weighs maybe 6 pounds and now Winston weighs about 68pds at 7 months old. Winston gets along great with my female poodle, they play all the time together but he has now gotten to the point that every time Jasper and him are in the same room together, Winston jumps on Jasper. Yesterday he got a hold of Jasper and bit down on his backside and hurt him. Poor Jasper wet himself, before we could get them apart. Winston is to big and strong for me to handle so my husband usually gets him and I get Jasper. I'm terrified that someday Winston will kill Jasper. We are trying to keep them separated, when Jasper is out in the house, Winston is in the crate and vicea versa. I don't know what to do to get them to get along. We love them both very much and hate to have to give one of them up. Jasper has been with us for 5 years now and when he is with Jessie (our female) they love each other. He's a smart and loving little guy, and so is Winston. Anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do to make Jasper accept Winston and Winston stop going after Jasper? As of right now, they are neither of them neutered but that is being rectified as of June. We are having them both neutered. Hopefully that will take some of the aggression out of them, I don't know. I hope it's not to late. Any ideas as to what I can do would be greatly appreciated.



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